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Posted 21 January 2011 - 02:07 PM

She was always acting single, I didn't like her anyway







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Posted 23 January 2011 - 05:21 AM

It's sad that we actually have people still doing this and I am not talking about Seeta Qasemi. I am talking about people who spread around these private informations and videos in order to humiliate one another. Sky, who are you to judge her anyways? None of us have any right to pass judgement on her, especially since we don't have all the information and details about the divorce and her reason for such action. Yak zara sharm konen, what if someone did something like this to you. How would you feel about it?

By the way I looked at the person's channel a little closer and I strongly believe the poster of the video, Afghgirl100, is a boy, meaning the poster is not reliable in my opinion. So how do you know that all that information in the video is true? Please stop this nonsense, it's their private business not any of ours.

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Posted 23 January 2011 - 06:17 AM

It's sad that we actually have people still doing this and I am not talking about Seeta Qasemi. I am talking about people who spread around these private informations and videos in order to humiliate one another. Sky, who are you to judge her anyways? None of us have any right to pass judgement on her, especially since we don't have all the information and details about the divorce and her reason for such action. Yak zara sharm konen, what if someone did something like this to you. How would you feel about it?

By the way I looked at the person's channel a little closer and I strongly believe the poster of the video, Afghgirl100, is a boy, meaning the poster is not reliable in my opinion. So how do you know that all that information in the video is true? Please stop this nonsense, it's their private business not any of ours.

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Posted 23 January 2011 - 06:28 AM

sweetheart why ugak didnt like her.......she is just a human being and we should love all of them cos they r different and that is the beauty of life...imagine everyone be like you or me...how boring it would be...

anyhow first of all we should never give ourselves the right to judge because what happened in between two people even their parents cant tell..let alone us the strangers...we should always know az yak dest saada nemebraya...

second of all for a min we consider this to be anyone case...a normal and simple girl...dont you think its our own and our parents fault that let this happen...you go to kabul everyone want to find a way to leave, which i dont blame, what i blame is choosing the wrong way....a girl of 16 marrys a guy of 50 to go to west...here everyone at fault who supports and who accepts to play with her/his life..this is one of the biggest issue in our society...we do something to get something in retun and we dont think of concequences in this case the kids who never choose to go through all this.

last but not least such videos we should watch nor support so people give up posting us otherwise we never know when our video will be on youtube and imagine people giving bemani comments...

sometimes i wonder when afghan grow up....ever pachagak
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Posted 24 January 2011 - 01:18 PM

Sillygak, I blame our culture and our mentality. We grew up in a country where this kind of thing is normal. You have a problem with a person, not only do you humiliate the person in any way possible but you also bring their family into the fight. Aghana dar qast gereftan kho daraje awal astan. Once you're on their hit list, you will never be taken off. Not to forget Gossip which is another thing we are extremely good at. Before an event even happens, half the city knows about it already. After it happens, the news is spreading half-way around the world in Afghanistan. This is something that adults and kids alike do and we need to change.

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Posted 25 January 2011 - 12:51 AM

qandolake kodam culture...culture malture nest...its all finished....the problem is all muslim has this mentality problem regardless of their nationality......what surprise me, like most people in our generation, grow up in west, and if u talk of study they first to show off how they finished university....but when it comes to mentality most still live in 1st century...so che konim, hech chez karda nametanim hun...just hope we dont come across qawara qawara people in our life....dega ra dilishan dega
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Posted 25 January 2011 - 08:33 AM

You may be right, Allah khair ra pesh kona.

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Posted 25 January 2011 - 11:58 AM

It's sad that we actually have people still doing this and I am not talking about Seeta Qasemi. I am talking about people who spread around these private informations and videos in order to humiliate one another. Sky, who are you to judge her anyways? None of us have any right to pass judgement on her, especially since we don't have all the information and details about the divorce and her reason for such action. Yak zara sharm konen, what if someone did something like this to you. How would you feel about it?

By the way I looked at the person's channel a little closer and I strongly believe the poster of the video, Afghgirl100, is a boy, meaning the poster is not reliable in my opinion. So how do you know that all that information in the video is true? Please stop this nonsense, it's their private business not any of ours.


Pacha first of all who are you to judge my judgement? secondly I think you live in pakistan and you don't know here in the west when you became a celeb then you dont have private life, any thing you do it get publish for the public as long as it is true. thirdly we do know all the story. she is not divorced she has just left the old man with 2 kids and run a way to dance and sing for ppl like her self, I said ppl like her self bcz in most of her songs all she does in her dancing is sex appeal, girls and boys who like those kind of appeal well love to watch her. we have many other female singer they song and dance but you dont see any sex appeal in their movement. By the way It was her husband uploaded the video on youtube and it was 4 and 5 videos which got all the story and we dont care if you think it is relible or not. I am 1000% sure No one can do this to me or to any other decent girl, ppl can make small story big but they can not make story out of nothing. I put this link here is to be an example for girls and boys or shall I say old men when they are marrying 16 years old girl and when the girl reach her 25 the husband get 60, that is when either the girl run a way or they start relation with other of course not all but some with weak personality.

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Posted 25 January 2011 - 12:14 PM

[quote name='silkybaby' date='23 January 2011 - 04:18 PM' timestamp='1295799503' post='107365']
sweetheart why ugak didnt like her.......she is just a human being and we should love all of them cos they r different and that is the beauty of life...imagine everyone be like you or me...how boring it would be...

anyhow first of all we should never give ourselves the right to judge because what happened in between two people even their parents cant tell..let alone us the strangers...we should always know az yak dest saada nemebraya...

second of all for a min we consider this to be anyone case...a normal and simple girl...dont you think its our own and our parents fault that let this happen...you go to kabul everyone want to find a way to leave, which i dont blame, what i blame is choosing the wrong way....a girl of 16 marrys a guy of 50 to go to west...here everyone at fault who supports and who accepts to play with her/his life..this is one of the biggest issue in our society...we do something to get something in retun and we dont think of concequences in this case the kids who never choose to go through all this.

last but not least such videos we should watch nor support so people give up posting us otherwise we never know when our video will be on youtube and imagine people giving bemani comments...

sometimes i wonder when afghan grow up....ever pachagak
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It is very easy to write a statement and say we should love each other bcz we are human, just to show how wise we are , but in real life no one is like that even your self bcz so many time you have complaint about ppl doing this and that e.g you said your relative in kabul they didnt come to visit you and they like money and so on, well if you are kind of person that love all as a human then why you complain, as you said we are all different some ppl like visiting some not.

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Posted 25 January 2011 - 03:17 PM

Pacha first of all who are you to judge my judgement? secondly I think you live in pakistan and you don't know here in the west when you became a celeb then you dont have private life, any thing you do it get publish for the public as long as it is true. thirdly we do know all the story. she is not divorced she has just left the old man with 2 kids and run a way to dance and sing for ppl like her self, I said ppl like her self bcz in most of her songs all she does in her dancing is sex appeal, girls and boys who like those kind of appeal well love to watch her. we have many other female singer they song and dance but you dont see any sex appeal in their movement. By the way It was her husband uploaded the video on youtube and it was 4 and 5 videos which got all the story and we dont care if you think it is relible or not. I am 1000% sure No one can do this to me or to any other decent girl, ppl can make small story big but they can not make story out of nothing. I put this link here is to be an example for girls and boys or shall I say old men when they are marrying 16 years old girl and when the girl reach her 25 the husband get 60, that is when either the girl run a way or they start relation with other of course not all but some with weak personality.



Sky jan, just because you live in the west you do not have to incorporate the western ideals into your own life. You're a Muslim first and as a Muslim we should not be spreading around unnecessary news in order to humiliate someone. This is what the videos are intended to do and what you seem to be doing as well.

I am in complete agreement with you about how many of the singers use sex appeal to attract audiences and I hate it just as much as you do. However voicing out against music videos is one thing and spreading around private information to belittle them is another. Her decision to leave the husband and the kids may or may not have anything to do with her singing career, we won't know till she explains it herself.

Her husband uploaded the videos, yet called himself afghgirl100?? That doesn't sound an alarm at all? How can a decent girl like you accept everything this man blurts out blindly when his sole intention is to embarrass and humiliate his wife and the mother of his kids! I don't doubt you are a decent girl, however it is not decent-like to be spreading around videos that calls someone a whore, excuse my language, and goes on to give all sorts of private information in order to put down the person.

As far as the age gap in marriage is concerned I agree that it should be discouraged and parents need to stop marrying off their young teenage daughters to older men. However this is a different topic than what the video is about. If you want to talk about how the age gap causes problems between couples then go ahead. I will actually join you in on the argument.

If I seemed like I was judging you, I apologize. I honestly didn't mean to, I was merely just trying to give a reminder to myself, to you, and to everyone else reading this thread.

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Posted 25 January 2011 - 08:03 PM

[quote name='Sky' date='26 January 2011 - 02:04 AM' timestamp='1295993057' post='107380']
[quote name='silkybaby' date='23 January 2011 - 04:18 PM' timestamp='1295799503' post='107365']
sweetheart why ugak didnt like her.......she is just a human being and we should love all of them cos they r different and that is the beauty of life...imagine everyone be like you or me...how boring it would be...

anyhow first of all we should never give ourselves the right to judge because what happened in between two people even their parents cant tell..let alone us the strangers...we should always know az yak dest saada nemebraya...

second of all for a min we consider this to be anyone case...a normal and simple girl...dont you think its our own and our parents fault that let this happen...you go to kabul everyone want to find a way to leave, which i dont blame, what i blame is choosing the wrong way....a girl of 16 marrys a guy of 50 to go to west...here everyone at fault who supports and who accepts to play with her/his life..this is one of the biggest issue in our society...we do something to get something in retun and we dont think of concequences in this case the kids who never choose to go through all this.

last but not least such videos we should watch nor support so people give up posting us otherwise we never know when our video will be on youtube and imagine people giving bemani comments...

sometimes i wonder when afghan grow up....ever pachagak
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It is very easy to write a statement and say we should love each other bcz we are human, just to show how wise we are , but in real life no one is like that even your self bcz so many time you have complaint about ppl doing this and that e.g you said your relative in kabul they didnt come to visit you and they like money and so on, well if you are kind of person that love all as a human then why you complain, as you said we are all different some ppl like visiting some not.
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complain is a different thing then humiliating someone..........I complain about my work too, doesnt mean I dont love it...i complain about my relative behaviour doesnt mean i dont love them....they r my jan oh jegar, today they knock my door i open and huge them....me stated fact about people living in afgh all care about money, and that is a fact, me didnt make up any story sweetie.....dear there are a lot of difference between a complain and what people are doing in this youtube...there is a lot of difference...
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"Dance, if you've torn the bandage off
"Dance in the middle of the fighting
"Dance in your blood
"Dance when you're perfectly free.
...Rumi

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Posted 28 January 2011 - 11:16 AM

OMG i feel so bad for her!

his story is sooo one sided! yak kami morch o masalesha ham ziaat sakhta!
what is he gaining by doing all this? portraying her like a whore and himself like an angel, who tolerated all this!!
it is soo sad to read so many comments by people writing horrible stuff about her! and they don't even know neither of them! god we are so quick to judge!
watching the videos, i know one obvious thing for sure, and that is that her husband is such a cheap ass be ghairat that should go kill himself!
khaak da saresh shawa for putting his private videos and pictures on the internet! be ghairate lawda! trying to earn people's sympathy by doing this!
she tolerated him for so long! she is the mother of his children!
he brought this on himself! he asked for it when he went to marry a 14 year old! so he totally deserves it kale be ghairat! noshe janesh! let this be a lesson for all those perverts who go to pakistan or afghanistan and marry young girls from poor families!


i really feel sorry for the children :(
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Posted 28 January 2011 - 11:30 AM

OMG i feel so bad for her!

his story is sooo one sided! yak kami morch o masalesha ham ziaat sakhta!
what is he gaining by doing all this? portraying her like a whore and himself like an angel, who tolerated all this!!
it is soo sad to read so many comments by people writing horrible stuff about her! and they don't even know neither of them! god we are so quick to judge!
watching the videos, i know one obvious thing for sure, and that is that her husband is such a cheap ass be ghairat that should go kill himself!
khaak da saresh shawa for putting his private videos and pictures on the internet! be ghairate lawda! trying to earn people's sympathy by doing this!
she tolerated him for so long! she is the mother of his children!
he brought this on himself! he asked for it when he went to marry a 14 year old! so he totally deserves it kale be ghairat! noshe janesh! let this be a lesson for all those perverts who go to pakistan or afghanistan and marry young girls from poor families!


i really feel sorry for the children :(


But I only want to give them a better life here in the states :(

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Posted 28 January 2011 - 11:50 AM

But I only want to give them a better life here in the states :(


bahahaha are you fat? and bald? and old?

no! so i give you full right to want to marry any chicka any from anywhere around the world! :P
but the intention aint right! u see marry for the right reasons.. you dont need me to tell you that ;)
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Posted 28 January 2011 - 12:24 PM

This is what happens when you buy generic Viagra. He saved a few bucks, but lost his wife. Afghans dega.


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Posted 28 January 2011 - 12:28 PM

bahahaha are you fat? and bald? and old?

no! so i give you full right to want to marry any chicka any from anywhere around the world! :P
but the intention aint right! u see marry for the right reasons.. you dont need me to tell you that ;)


Fat....getting there, bald....one day possibly.....old, according to the afghan standards I am getting there.

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Posted 29 January 2011 - 09:53 AM

She was always acting single, I didn't like her anyway








Wow you really have no life





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